In France gift lists stay delicate. The goal is not to impose, it is to give a clear option to guests who ask "what would you like?".
Fiancé offers a list where each guest can claim a gift or contribution, so you do not get three identical blenders.
Three common formats
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Item list with claiming (tableware, trip, home gear)
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Honeymoon or joint project fund
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Envelope on the day (mention quietly in FAQ, not as a headline)
How Fiancé can help
Build your gift list in Fiancé: add ideas, external links, or fund amounts. Guests claim from the wedding page without public amount details.