The 10 steps in order
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1. Set total budget (a ceiling, not a vague range)
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2. Pick a date or 2 to 3 month window
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3. Estimate guest list (high and low bounds)
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4. Book the reception venue
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5. Hire caterer and photographer
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6. Confirm music, flowers, officiant if needed
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7. Send invitations and collect RSVPs
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8. Finalize menu, seating chart, and lodging
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9. Lock attire, rings, day-of schedule
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10. Final coordination with witnesses and vendors (2 to 7 days out)
Where couples slip most often
Comparing photographers before having a budget. Sending invitations before the date is firm. Building a seating chart before RSVPs.
If you hesitate between two steps, ask: "Do I need the answer before moving on?"