At D-30 you need to know who has not replied, who never got the invitation, and who still waits for the menu link. Without per-guest status, you resend a save-the-date to someone already confirmed.
Useful statuses per household
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Save-the-date sent (date)
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RSVP: pending / yes / no
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Notes (e.g. lodging offered)
Weekly workflow (from D-90)
Monday: export « pending » from Fiancé.
Wednesday: personal nudges (2 lines max).
Friday: caterer update if headcount moved.
Align this rhythm with the invitation timeline. Follow up without a log means nudging the same people twice and forgetting the ones who matter.
How Fiancé can help
Fiancé's guest list handles RSVP, plus-ones, children, and dietary needs. The public page lets guests reply without creating an account. Nudge from the app and track who received save-the-dates, invitations, or menu choices. Every extra guest adds up: stress-test your cap with the budget calculator. Disclaimer
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Camille
Budget, guests & seating expert